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Disciple Someone

From convert to disciple-maker. Complete 12-week discipleship curriculum to mentor a new believer.

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Understanding the Call to Disciple

Before you begin, grasp the heart behind disciple-making

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The Discipleship Crisis

Most churches are full of Christians who've never been discipled.

They attend church but don't grow

They make decisions but don't change

They know Jesus but don't follow Jesus

They have faith but no transformation

The crisis isn't evangelism. It's discipleship.

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Why Disciple-Making Matters

Jesus' Last Command:

"Go and make disciples"

Not: "Go and make converts"

Not: "Go and fill churches"

But: "Go and make disciples"

A disciple is a follower who becomes a leader who multiplies disciples.

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Your Role as Disciple-Maker

You're NOT:

A savior (Jesus is)

A therapist (though you listen)

A boss (though you lead)

Perfect (you're growing too)

You ARE:

A guide

A model

An investment

An encourager

Foundations of Discipleship

Build on the right foundation before you begin

What Is Discipleship?

Discipleship is the process of:

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Being transformed

by Jesus into His image

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Learning

to follow Him completely

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Being equipped

to serve and lead

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Being empowered

to multiply disciples

It's NOT:

Just Bible study

Just accountability

Just learning information

A program with an end date

It's a lifestyle of following Jesus with someone walking alongside you.

The Great Commission Framework

Matthew 28:19-20:

"Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you."

Notice the progression:

1
Go

Reach people

2
Baptize

Bring them in

3
Teach

Help them grow

4
Obey

Practice what they learn

Your Model: Jesus and the Twelve

Jesus' discipleship approach:

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Selection

He chose 12

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Investment

He spent most time with them

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Modeling

He showed them how to live

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Correction

He confronted sin and error

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Empowerment

He gave them authority

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Multiplication

He sent them to make disciples

You follow this same model.

The Disciple-Maker's Heart

Before you disciple, examine your heart:

Preparing to Disciple

Set yourself and your disciple up for success

Selecting Your Disciple

Not everyone is ready. Not everyone is who you should disciple.

Qualities to Look For:

Spiritual Readiness
  • Recent commitment to Jesus
  • Evidence of change
  • Hunger to grow
  • Willingness to be challenged
Character
  • Honesty and vulnerability
  • Teachability
  • Consistency
  • Integrity
Commitment
  • Willing to invest time
  • Willing to be held accountable
  • Willing to apply what they learn
  • Willing to become a disciple-maker
Potential
  • Influence with others
  • Capacity to grow
  • Heart to serve
  • Leadership qualities

Assessing Readiness

Questions to Ask:

Spiritual:
  • • How long have you been following Jesus?
  • • What changes have you experienced?
  • • What's your commitment level?
  • • What do you want to grow in?
Practical:
  • • Do you have time to meet weekly?
  • • Are you willing to do assignments?
  • • Can you commit for 12 weeks?
  • • What obstacles might come up?

Setting Expectations

Be crystal clear about what you're offering:

What Discipleship IS:
  • Weekly one-on-one meeting (60-90 minutes)
  • Homework assignments (30-60 minutes per week)
  • Accountability for growth
  • Challenge to go deeper
  • Investment in their transformation
What Discipleship is NOT:
  • Therapy or counseling
  • Quick fixes
  • Easy or comfortable
  • Optional or casual
Commitment Level:
  • 12-week intensive period
  • Missing weeks sets you back
  • Full participation required
  • Post-curriculum mentoring may continue

Creating the Container

The discipleship relationship needs structure.

The Container Includes:

Regular Meeting

Same time, same place, same rhythm

Clear Agenda

Purpose for each meeting

Safe Space

Confidentiality and trust

Growth Focus

Always moving toward transformation

Accountability

Honest about progress and struggles

Prayer

Regular intercession

6 Core Discipleship Principles

Master these before you start discipling

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Choose Someone "FAT"

Faithful, Available, Teachable

Don't waste time on lukewarm Christians. Find someone hungry for growth who will actually show up and apply what they learn.

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Life-on-Life, Not Just Study

They need to see your life

Discipleship isn't a Bible study—it's life-on-life. Let them see how you pray, handle conflict, witness, and worship. Model what you teach.

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Disciple to Multiply

The goal is reproduction

From day one, tell them: "I'm discipling you so YOU can disciple someone else." Aim for 2 Timothy 2:2 multiplication.

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Consistency Over Perfection

Meet weekly, no excuses

Pick a time and stick to it. Consistency builds discipline. Missing weeks kills momentum.

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Real Accountability

Ask the hard questions

Ask about sin, Bible reading, prayer, evangelism. Don't let them coast. Iron sharpens iron.

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Release Them to Lead

Let them go after 3 months

At 12 weeks, commission them to disciple someone else. If you hold on, you hinder multiplication.

Overview: The 12-Week Structure

A proven roadmap that takes disciples through four progressive phases

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Weeks 1-3

FOUNDATION

Theme: Who you are in Christ

Focus: Identity, belonging, security

Outcome: Disciples know who they are and who God is

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Weeks 4-6

GROWTH

Theme: How to follow Jesus

Focus: Disciplines, decisions, direction

Outcome: Disciples have practices and direction

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Weeks 7-9

MINISTRY

Theme: How to serve others

Focus: Gifts, calling, impact

Outcome: Disciples are serving and leading

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Weeks 10-12

REPRODUCTION

Theme: How to multiply disciples

Focus: Leadership, mentoring, commissioning

Outcome: Disciples become disciple-makers

The Discipleship Journey

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New Believer

Starting point

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Growing Disciple

Weeks 1-6

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Serving Leader

Weeks 7-9

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Disciple-Maker

Weeks 10-12

Goal: Transform converts into multiplying disciple-makers in 12 weeks

12-Week Discipleship Curriculum

A proven roadmap to take someone from new believer to disciple-maker

Week 1

Assurance of Salvation

Make sure they know they're saved

📖 Key Scriptures:

1 John 5:11-13
Romans 8:38-39
John 10:27-29

🎯 This Week's Activities:

  • Share your testimony
  • Explain the Gospel clearly
  • Pray together

Effective Mentoring Strategies

Practical wisdom for guiding your disciple's growth

Meeting Structure (90 minutes)

10

Connection

How was your week? Build rapport. Transition to content.

25

Teaching

Present the lesson. Answer questions. Make it personal.

30

Discussion

Process what you taught. Explore application. Share experiences.

10

Assignment

Explain homework. Clarify expectations. Pray.

15

Closing

Prayer for them. Encouragement. Availability.

Asking Better Questions

Questions drive growth better than advice.

Reflection Questions

Help them think deeper

  • • "What did that passage mean to you?"
  • • "How does that apply to your life?"

Challenge Questions

Push toward growth

  • • "What would it look like to surrender that area?"
  • • "What's keeping you from following through?"

Clarifying Questions

Ensure understanding

  • • "Tell me more about that."
  • • "What do you mean by that?"

Accountability Questions

Maintain progress

  • • "How did that assignment go?"
  • • "Did you follow through?"
  • • "What obstacles came up?"

Weekly Accountability Check-In

Essential questions to ask every week:

How did your Scripture reading go?
Did you practice prayer?
What was your greatest growth?
What's your biggest struggle?
How can I pray for you?

Troubleshooting Common Challenges

How to navigate obstacles and keep discipleship on track

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Lack of Progress

Signs to watch for:

  • Not doing assignments
  • Missing meetings
  • Closed off in discussions
  • No apparent change
  • Complaining without action

Your Response:

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    Assess honestly: Is it lack of effort or lack of clarity?
  2. 2
    Communicate directly: "I'm noticing you're not engaging. What's happening?"
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    Problem-solve: Remove barriers, adjust approach
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    Make a decision: Continue with full commitment or pause
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    Don't enable: You can't want their growth more than they do
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Common Resistances & Responses

"This is too demanding"

Response:

Clarify that 2-3 hours per week is reasonable investment. Disciple-making requires commitment.

"I don't feel like I'm changing"

Response:

Growth is often invisible. Look back at weeks 1-4. Notice shifts. Celebrate small wins.

"I have too much going on"

Response:

Disciple-making requires prioritization. What might need to decrease? What's more important than your spiritual growth?

"I'm not sure this is for me"

Response:

It's okay to wait. But be honest about your commitment level. Don't start if you're not ready.

From Disciple to Disciple-Maker

Recognizing readiness and commissioning new leaders

Recognizing Readiness

Signs your disciple is ready to become a disciple-maker:

The Commissioning Process

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Affirm their growth

Tell them specifically how they've changed. Celebrate their journey.

2

Cast vision

Show them the need for more disciple-makers. Excite them about multiplication. Paint a picture of their impact.

3

Provide resources

Give them this curriculum. Help them understand the process. Connect them with support.

4

Pray for them

Commission them formally. Pray for their disciples. Pray for their success.

5

Release them

Let them go make disciples. Trust them with the process. Maintain connection.

2 Timothy 2:2

"And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others."

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You've discipled one person. Now it's time to multiply—train leaders who can train others.